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 | Author : single4jesus |
| | What can you make of this? | my boyfrind and I broke up about 2 years ago . I never got over him . I recently tried to reconnect . we met up andI then proceeded to ask him for another chance , he told me he is now in a serious relationship and he doesnt want to hurt the other person because she has been realy good to him .
We were friends for about 10 yrs and dated for about 1 yr , the break up was mainly my fault , I was not very supportive of him . I have realy changed now and realise that I love him and want to be with him regardless of anything . All the things that used to be important to me are no longer important. I hurt his feelings a lot during the relationship , but I have genuinly realised my mistake.
Now to the present , even though he told me he is in a serious relaqtionship , he registered on a dating website the day before we met up. Can anyone please help me figure this one out ? I realy love him and I know that he loves me too , is the hurt of the past is holding him back ?
I am convinced ne is the will of God for me.
Pls help me make sense of this
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 | | Posted By | Lyei | Date/Time | 2008-09-15 08:04:30 | | | Hello Sis,
I feel your pain. Because of the past relationship, you are still emotionally tied to this man no matter what. You need to set yourself free. If this man is truly the will of God for you, then he will come. You going and asking him for another chance, I feel that you may be forcing things. He sounds a bit confused too and 2 confused people don't make a home. I suggest you continue to pray about it. I personnally would not try to hang out with an old flame knowing that person was in the relationship because how you find someone is how you are going to leave that person too. Be strong, God only has the best for you, just trust Him. You need to seek your healing too and forgive yourself for past mistakes. Sometimes we don't get a chance to make things better but as long as we learn from the mistakes and the hurt, it's just as good. Search your heart and find out really why you want to be back with him so much. Are you truly the best thing for him? Is the ultimately going to be the best for you? I hope that I have been helpful. May God bless you. |
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| | | | Posted By | Chief | Date/Time | 2008-09-16 12:33:04 | | | Lyei - DITTO |
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